If you’re anything like I was, you might be carrying around invisible weights that you don’t quite understand. When my 34-year marriage ended at the age of 50, I didn’t realise how much of my life had been shaped by patterns I wasn’t even aware of. I had no idea at the time that I was co-dependent, blocked to success and abundance as well as many other things.
It wasn’t until everything fell apart that I was forced to look within and rediscover who I was—not as someone’s wife or someone’s daughter, but as me.
Looking back, I wish I’d had the map I’ve created now, a guide to move forward fearlessly. It wasn’t an easy journey, I'm not going to lie, but digging deep into the strength I didn’t even know I had, led me on a journey. It felt like a roller coaster and I wanted to get off, but I had no choice but to hold on tight and see the ride through until the very end.
What Are the Akashic Records?
Think of the Akashic Records as a cosmic library—a place where the story of your soul is written, not just from this life but from all your lifetimes. That includes the experiences, beliefs, and even traumas passed down through your family line.
I like to think of it as opening a book where all the patterns, choices, and influences that shape your life are laid out. It’s not scary or overwhelming; in fact, it’s incredibly empowering.
Through the Akashic Records, I realised how deeply I was tied to some of the beliefs and struggles my family had carried for generations. Things like "women should always put others first," or "it’s selfish to focus on yourself," or "the man is the breadwinner, and my role is to support him," "it’s my job to keep the peace, even if it means suppressing my own needs, ", "I shouldn’t complain; I have a roof over my head and food on the table," "a good wife keeps the house clean and takes care of the kids—no matter what,"
"as long as he’s not cheating or hitting me, I shouldn’t have anything to complain about."
Such beliefs often stem from societal expectations, family conditioning, or generational patterns—and they’re exactly the kind of patterns that can be uncovered and released through tools like the Akashic Records.
Sound familiar?
These aren’t just stories—they’re patterns that shape how we show up in relationships, careers, and even how we see ourselves.
How Ancestral Patterns Play a Role
Here’s the thing: these patterns don’t start with you. That sense of guilt or fear you might feel, the belief that you’re “not enough,” or the tendency to settle for less than you deserve? Those could be echoes from generations before you.
For me, that co-dependency I mentioned earlier wasn’t just about my marriage. It was a reflection of generations of women in my family who had been taught to prioritise everyone else over themselves.
Once I accessed my Akashic Records and started working through those ancestral patterns, I began to understand that these weren’t my burdens to carry anymore.
Healing Through the Akashic Records
The healing process wasn’t about blame. It wasn’t about pointing fingers at my parents or grandparents or saying, “This is all your fault.”
It was about compassion—acknowledging that they did the best they could with what they knew, and now it was my turn to break the cycle.
When I first started working with the Akashic Records, I didn’t really know what to expect. I thought it might feel “woo-woo” or mystical, but it turned out to be incredibly practical. At the time my youngest son who is an Indigo Kid (Read my book I am indigo) was going to be permanently excluded from high school, but the woman who taught me how to clear the Akashic Records, cleared his negative patterns and everything changed. He got his O'Levels and is now a very successful businessman.
When my marriage ended and I did the necessary personal development work on myself, I uncovered beliefs I didn’t even know I had and began to gently untangle myself from them. It wasn’t instant, as it's like taking layers off of an onion, but each insight helped me take one more step forward.
Moving Fearlessly Forward
What I love most about the Akashic Records is that they don’t just stop at uncovering the past. They give you a roadmap for moving forward. They show you what’s possible when you’re no longer tied to the patterns that held you back.
Today, I use this tool with my clients to help them move through their own fears and limitations, whether those come from a past relationship, family dynamics, or a deep sense of "not being enough."
My mission is to help prevent heartbreak the second or third time around. After clearing the ancestral and emotional patterns that hold you back, we focus on what I call the selfies: self-love, self-esteem, self-respect, self-belief, and self-confidence.
These are the foundations for creating a life and relationships built on empowerment, authenticity, and joy. I want every woman who feels stuck to know that there is another side, and you don’t have to walk the path alone. Together, we’ll release what no longer serves you and build a future where you can thrive with clarity, freedom, and unwavering self-worth.
If You’re Ready to Heal…
If any of this resonates with you—if you feel like you’re carrying more than just your own struggles, or you’re ready to let go of what no longer serves you—I’d love to help you clear the negative patterns in your Akashic Records.
It’s not about looking back with sadness; it’s about stepping forward with clarity, freedom, and strength.
The answers, the healing, and the strength are already within you. Let’s unlock them together. Book a FREE Chemistry Call
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